Can you rest?
Mar 26, 2022Dear Amor,
You were not put on this Earth to serve others. You are not here to work all day long and then come home tired to then serve others some more. You deserve ease and rest too, amor!
Though you may struggle with feelings of guilt when protecting your energy and wellness, please know that you are not selfish for prioritizing your well-being. Capitalism wants you exhausted. The cisheteropatriarchy wants you subservient. Consumerism wants you emotionally depleted.
This is why choosing to practice self-care DAILY is essential to the collective. This is why you setting boundaries with your employer, co-workers, family, partner, and anyone else not choosing to exist in right relation with you is critical to our collective resilience.
If you care about making the world a better place, you have to start by protecting your energy. There is no liberation from systemic problems if you are too sick or tired to resist.
And of course amor, there will be days where you spend more time crying than laughing, PLEASE allow yourself this release. You do not have to keep carrying the pressure and pain contigo. You deserve to expand your comfort zone poco a poco.
Do you believe this amor?
I hope so because if you don't believe that you are worthy of wellness you may talk yourself into staying at jobs that underpay you, turning to debt to pay for temporary satisfaction, too exhausted to learn how to invest, and too burnt out to dream about ways to become work optional.
Creating a financial plan to retire early requires knowing you are worthy of rest and ease. It requires reminding yourself daily that you have the capacity to turn obligations to options, that you can choose play over productivity, and that you can opt-out of every belief that keeps you where you know in your heart you are not supposed to be.
If you are already a client of mine, I hope this email reminds you to stick to your self-care plan. If you are not a client yet, use this link to schedule a time to learn how my coaching services can put you on a path to becoming work optional también.
Todo con tiempo,
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ANNOUNCEMENTS + REMINDERS
- The price to work 1:1 with me for 6 months will be $4,000 starting Quarter 2. The price will go up by another $1,000 starting Quarter 3 and once again during Quarter 4. Though I strongly believe your sense of urgency to work with me should come from your commitment to transform your financial trajectory ASAP, I am communicating the change in prices so you can budget accordingly.
- This Monday, March 28, 2022 4pm PST/7pm EST, I will be going live with Melissa Jean-Baptiste from @millennialindebt to discuss how to create a financial plan to retire early.
- Use this link to register for my free workshop "Building Financial Security with BAE" on Wednesday, March 30th at 6pm PST/ 9pm EST.
- I will be a panelist speaker at Mamas Talk Money: The Legacy, a 3-day live online conference from April 8 - 10, 2022 all about creating lasting generational wealth. Use the code "POCOAPOCO" to get $5 off your ticket. If you want to learn more about the summit, tune in on Monday, March 28, 2022 as I interview Chelsea.